One minute you'd swear they want to spend every minute with you, which we know is not the case, and the next they treat you like the babysitter or some mere acquaintance! Oh, you are so right. I've noticed that all the Aquas who have taken interest in me were very quiet about their feelings and distanced themselves(from my best friend to a guy I've know 10yrs), but stalkerish at the same time. Enter OTP to verify & login to your account. While they ' re usually fearless and up for anything, sickness takes everything out of them. Thanks for any feedback, I need some hope or not. he responds with 'ok' after 7 years of close friendship he didn't even care it was ending. The response I got was" I understand, I just need some time to figure things out. They will throw you over for the next new love interest. Anyway we became exclusive right away as he asked me to be his girlfriend and that was that. After about 2 months of this treatment I took a call from him and we went back out. Based on science. He also has so many friends and treats his lovers like friends, which doubles down the confusion. though, i heard males are more prone to cheat, but like i said everyone is different. He is the first man I have spent time with since separating from my husband (who he knows really well and I sometimes wonder if this causes him a problem but then i'm probably just kidding myself!) I have so many things to say but it hurts to talk about. The Aquarian man is not good at pretending. Yes he swept me off my feet, everyday saw me, took me out, called all day, he told me he loved me first and wanted to marry me, etc. However I am starting to fall for one guy who is 2 years younger than me. So, they are very unpredictable men. I am addressing that and we had a while where only 1 argument and I didn't run, he talked me out of it. They are not above throwing your stiff on the lawn after a fight, keying your car, or airing your dirty laundry in the heat of the moment. I was married before too, and even when I was younger and single would NEVER have put up with this crap. What will be will be I guess. I have put forth more effort, than ever, to communicate how he is making me feel and what I would like from him. Aries woman is a very strong character and is very charismatic. They usually have a big group of friends because they are very quirky. Every wknd he call it quits. Good luck. This is not a perfect match or a match made in heaven; hence, it needs hard work for the relationship to work. I ignored him and finally send him a long text telling him that I dont do games. We were both in relationships with others every time we got together, but it always just felt so natural & right. Still, the road to friendship and love is methodical and slow. All they think about is how to get what they want. If I like a guy, he knows it. Then one day he just disappeared one me havent heard from him in 3 weeks. It's exhausting!! lol. If it doesnt get better soon, get out because it probably wont. Ok so I have read every comment, and I agree with the aries wanting to slap them all! You can learn more about how this tool works by clicking here. Though the Aries woman is the dominant partner in this relationship, it's the Pisces man's willingness to be flexible, to try new things, to be led, and explore the unknown that will allow this relationship to thrive, survive, and have staying power. A new book, a new project, a new hobbythey will initiate without overthinking. He is NOT listening. What should this "just go for it" woman expect when dating a Pisces man? Element Fire. I guess my response to it was emotional and wanting answers which obviously didn't take well to because now he will not talk to me whatsoever. He would start keeping you in the loop of whatever plans he has for the relationship and what not just so you give in to his desire of wanting to be with you. Dont try to make him jealous when he is ignoring you to get his attention. In fact, they are the things we can work on to make us a better person, the room for improvement. HUH? So, it's reassuring to him the Aries woman is interested in getting to know him when she makes the first move. But I do love listening to him rant on about whatever lol not to mention he is very ambitious, So damn sexy! we made each other nervous, he's too good looking and i'm a little older. In general, they should open up and be more tolerant to one another. He seems so fascinating. And sexy, and intelligent - and the chemistry is amazing. Maybe I allowed us to become intimate too soon?! She is pushy and playful, and breaking his emotional walls is a great challenge to her. I donot call, he makes the call to me and if I see a missed call I would return the call. They are very independent and fun to spend time with. If you've known this man for a bit, you should be in on his ways by now. His actions scream to me that he likes me, the calls, the sharing all his life info, telling me everything. Meanwhile, you can discover the reasons why Aries men are the most prone to leaving and returning their partners by scrolling down. But, he wants me to be his best friend. Pisces will be a good fit. Thanks so much I and to you too Viking! Of course, you are! He always has an excuse. Pisces is the natural ruler of the 12th house and is ruled by the planet Neptune. Ha! Show up when they feel like you're about to move on? and that it would probably be the best for both of you if he left now. all shitty like, this has been a week ago, he must be reading the entire set of encyclopedias i supposeway over it nowI need something stable and this man is not it..I understand his loss, and have been right here for him the entire time,,but he is no where for meEver. We're Talking About Hey There Ariens And Fellow Arien Lovers! I'm ok with him not being interested, but he will not tell me he's not. Begin the first sign of the zodiac, Aries is young at heart. When angry or hurt they arent afraid to burn a bridge or twoeven if theyll regret it in a few hours. Good luck,gf, and try not to get too frustrated with him, and just go about your business, and what happens, happens! I started talking to an Aquarius man online 20 months ago. We like mysteries, and we like to open closed books. Explore hidden factors such as physical attraction so you can see the whole picture of your relationship. They are extremely frustrating, and the mixed signals they give are weird, for sure! I hope I didnt kill that love bc what we share is truly is so unique & amazing. I never lie nor cheated on him but let him tell it, its a hold different story. Before trying to bring him back, make sure it is the right move as hes famous for being clingy, possessive, and overwhelming. My mantra has been "be patient and positive". Appreciate the inputs in the first post.I met an acqua and this post kind of explains his nature pretty well. Btw, Im a Scorpio, Your email address will not be published. He lost out bigtime. We want the unattainable. Thus signs like Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius, and Aquarius work well with an Aries. That was sooo mean of him and cruel. autumnfalls1985, Ive had an on & off lover/friend relationship with an Aries man for 18 years. They are doers, and they cant relate to those who dwell on emotions. I feel like he is trying to hint at me that he is not gone, but he knows I'm off this week and I have heard nothing more. When he found out how I felt, he pulled away but came back. He does get swamped. They will date 3-4 girls at the same time. That must be their MO. In 2017 I decided it was about time I started a blog on the topic, and since then more than 2 million people worldwide have read my relationship advice. At the beginning of the dating stage, they will try to communicate to get to know each other better. He could do what he wanted but when it came to me it was so different. So hes likely not that into you once he displays his disappearing acts. Disappearing Acts by Terry McMillan | Goodreads An Aries guy mostly comes back for selfish things. But he doesn't, in fact we talk more. You just have to make sure him and you remain on the same page. Personal relationship advice based on your natal and composite charts. Reading the Aquarian man can be even more complicated than with most guys. Does he send you flowers? If youre still unsure about his feelings for you and its tearing you up to know, just ask him. Aries doesn't want you to ask . Trust me, he has others. The only reason we did have a conversation via text is because I contacted him but other than that I haven't heard anything. I kinda panicked at first but didnt show it. Im a cancer woman I was in a long distance relationship with a Aquarius man 6 months of nothing I regret even opening up to him because all he did was blame me for everything and never took responsibility for nothing he told me he loved me first now I feel like a fool for even saying it back. Tiny I really do understand how you must be feeling even though I have only been dating mine for a few months I am already experiencing the impact his behaviour has on me - it's just this whole detachment thing that really gets me. I finally asked if I was going to see him again when he got back into town and his response was "of course!!! we broke up again after 1 week vacation with me he said he cant get married with me bla bla bla, and after 8months break up, he called me everyday i mean everyday! This happened to my bestfriend, but for 8 years she was with this man and he did finally get engaged to her but kept putting the wedding off, she even went out and bought the wedding gown, parents rented the wedding hall, only for him to make up an excuse, so some things started getting fishy and she found out he had been cheating on her all 8 years they were together. It was a miscommunication, he took a break again. He s unemotionally attach to me when we get our closest & things going great will even say he doesn't know if he could ever love any one. She wrote a monthly column for the Atlanta Astrological Society and shares her insights in Daily Astro Inspirations. If so, he probably isnt that into you. To an Aries, he only thinks about the consequence after taking actions. We had a disagreement and things changed. But when he does text me he says really nice things but idk what else to believe.. i have never felt this way for no other guyy :( i need help. You have to be strong and attention giver if you want to attract an Aries woman. Go to a movie or bowling or to his favorite food joint and just talk.Don't talk about why he hasn't been talking to you or that you've missed him, because that will just make him feel guilty and he'll want to get away from the bad feelings, but also don't make it seem like you've had too much fun while you weren't with him, because that will just make him think that you don't really like him, anyway (again, not in a mean way. Does the Aries male tend to ignore the woman he likes? But anyway will he come back around? 2 wks ago he satisfy he's scared and didn't text for a wk. Watch to see if he pays attention to you and your needs or is he just doing things at random. They don't go well with signs like Cancer and Capricorn. share your stories i am well aware of the aquarian nature being there and not there attached and then suddenly mia. Which I have told him it pisses me off. I completely shut him out of my life - did not take calls, refused to see him when he showed up, sent back letters he sent to me, shut him out like he didn't exist. Today makes a week. Accept her way of doing things, especially in the beginning. Just be patient and try to stay 2 steps ahead of him. They can be at times very unpredictable due to being a fire sign. Share your thoughts in the comment! But I do miss him believe me! I started dating him in June of 2015. Im ready to say forget it. Give them feedback for thats what they thrive on, social interactions. Among all the zodiac signs, the Rams are probably the least manipulative. I have a ton more detail!! He doesn't want to go fast at all, no matter what kind of signals he may accidentally be sending. We're very spontaneous, We tend and service to anyone who needs our help and love. Ok then, no problem. This man is nearly 50 and did tell me he had disappeared on women before. Or that something came up abruptly. Aquarius typical disappearing act by: Pissed off Cancer . Aries will give you an action plan instead of a shoulder to cry on. Why can't I snag a Sagittarius? At that point, all bets are off. Make use of your me time to look at what has gone wrong between you and your partner, and immediately take corrective action to save your love life! Good luck to u all. During those two months he always crossed my mind. If whatever he's doing doesn't bring that feeling, walk away sister! I really want him to be a part of my life & i want to be there for him too. All the thoughtful gifts and attention would work that magic. I am in shock and sick. Keep us posted as to how it turns out,okay. This is the guy who is brimming with energy and passion when falling in love. We love people, love being with them, love studying themBut we also hate being tied down and when people get too closeIt scares us, to be frank, and we run away to the next thing. The next few days we talked once a day and then all of a sudden I didn't hear from him at all. Find a good Aries that truly loves you! I've been talking to him for over a year and a couple of months ago he just stopped talking. the key is be patient! Every single reason . Related:The Ultimate Course: How to Attract an Aquarius Man. as my feelings for him are so so strong, but I know in my heart that I will not be able to cope with the rollercoaster ride longterm. He went home and things have been different every since, he still tells me he loves me and I am his best friend but I catch him lies all the time. We've never kissed or anything, I am just clueless with what to do, I guess I can't really do anything. Not because I'm possessive or clingy, though I am emotional. But damn when the hell do they give a damn about your feelings or do they ever? Required fields are marked *. An Aries woman and a Pisces man would not be considered perfect astrological partners, but too much similarity can make a relationship boring and stagnant. He said that he can't handle drama and that he doesn't need or want this is in his life that I was acting like a psycho and that the woman he was talking too was next to her husband and she asked him a question we were at a concert. Life is too short. He will rather travel with his family and friends than travel with you. I'm reading all you both wrote and cannot believe how similar our situations are. he isn't returned my one phone call (its been over a week but I'm not going to blow up his phone) or any of my three texts. How do I get through to him? ( I am an aries ) and my patience has been tested to a degree where I have questioned my own sanity !! But he also say he loves me & tht Im his center. Remember, this isntjustfor Aries sun signs. This toxic trait of Aries often leaves them with a long list of unfinished plans. I love my friend. I realized not too long ago that all I have ever dated was Aquas (and Virgos) and I have to say in their defense that they are not all like this. We declared our love for each other and I felt I would be with him for the rest of my life however, he would not add me as a friend on Facebook, met his ex girlfriend for dinner and went missing for long periods of time! Which I chose to be. The break up was never made official by phone call or conversation. Does he keep coming around? But he started making excuses & avoided meeting. I thought it was cute at 1st. Neither of them feels comfortable with compromise. While the Sun sign does lend its light to the entire personality, it's only one factor among many. The most common reason for wanting to break up with a Pisces is their basic lack of integrity. Aside from her intelligence, its her honesty and strength that successfully capturing his attention. I want to be with someone who let's me have my freedom too but one needs to be able to communicate too. Suppose hes not into you, no worries. But, to think after i knew he cheated i felt i didn't want to lose 9 years so i fought 4 him. If he suspects that you have other good looking guys around you as friends, if he likes you he will work harder and do whatever to keep u and not to loose you to your male friends. I've bern with my Aqua guy on and off for 4 yearswe leave together now but he decided he wants to move out. Aries is one of the zodiac signs that find it difficult to hide from their feelings. And I absolutely agree with you, their behaviour can come across as so immature and rude at times and yet if they were trested the same way - well, don't they have something to say about it? The first step in getting an Aries to fall in love with you is to understand, accept, and finally cherish, these tendencies. Surely a person gets tired of always going back to a passive interest. I have a Aries bf or ex bf I am not sure what to call him at this point he is completely ignoring me and its driving me insane what to do? Still deciding? so, for 7 years we were dating from his warped aqua perspective; he didn't even need or want sex to consider us a relationship. Giving you time is like giving you flowers. Were like the stock brokers. Just a text saying im sorry i dont have much to give. So, if an Aquarius guy brushes off an invitation and tells you he's busy, does that mean he's lost interest in you? We finally started going on dates and having sex (magical!!).. Hell likely tell you whether he wants something to happen between you or not as long as you bring it up in a light enough manner. What goes around will come back on that person. When an Aquarian disappears they will often without warning or explanation, cut off all contact and retreat into their own world. That was about a month ago! So if they already make up their mind, dont bother to talk them out or slow them down. You do not have that power, nobody does. When he has NEVER caught me doing a thing. We have always had a great friendship and in the last year, it became more, we became very close, I visited him where he lives, he came and stayed with me for the entire summer. my head is spinning i let him know i was developing feelings.duh. Then last week after he has been calling and seeing me more, were getting closer, we got into it again. Next, he avoids making any concrete plans at all. Tips to Get Aries Man Heart, What Type of Women Do Aries Men Like (3 BEST Traits He Looks For). He constantly says hes not ready for a relationship but also confessed that the only woman he would ever even think of marrying is me. They are natural leaders who often choose to go their own way instead of following the pack. I had a Aquarius pretend to love and care about me I thought this where going in to right direction but behind my back he would say mean things about me and laugh at me. WTH? Disappearing Acts is based on the everyday struggles of a black woman Zora, and man Franklin, living in New York during the 80's. Franklin is a tall handsome handyman who works construction. finally a man who can beat me at my own game (or downfall should i say). His strength at avoiding conflicts gives her peace and security. I find this disappearance act so weird because I'm not used to it and I don't know what to think of it. yeah mine also said 'of course i want to see you, but at least u'll miss me more' Lord knows what that means?? They do love challenges and adventures fortunately, so they get excited around the other. The problem with these guys is that they will never fall in love with you. That doesn't make sense to me. Inbetween though we have talked on the phone and txted and this has happened more frequently just recently. September 26, 2016 by Reid Suarez 16 Comments. I'm Michelle Devani and would like to take this opportunity to welcome you to my site. Im so in love with him, I'm absolutely helpless, I try to ignore his calls, but i can't I value his friendship to me too much. This post is really helpful. Remind him that you are still interesting and you are still worth studying. it started as an explosion! What if your he is same age & your Pisces . If something is wrong in the relationship, she expects her partner to be direct and straightforward. We're Talking About Hey Guys, Wanted To Get Some Advice Regarding A Capricorn Woman I've R. This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Hence it seems they can see into your thoughts and say or do the right thing at the right time. Surely if any man wants you enough and they know that you want them too they will make the effort so WTF why should aquarius guys be any different? Been with my Aries man, for 6 months. And then move on to someone who isnt paranoid about what you do and where you are. Independent is a defining trait of Aries. I read a comment where there was an Aries that was mad at some Aquarius and "wanted to slap us all" (I found that hilarious, by the way. Who i feel don't ever want to commit. They always seem to have some excuse as to why they can't spend some quality time with you like they used to. I think Aquarisns can be quite emotionally selfish in so far as they need you when they need you but expect you to be quite independent as well. Keep ya posted. He may send sweet texts one day then drop off the map the next. Reasons Why Aries Man Keeps Coming Back To You (7 Possible Reasons) A few days ago, he thanked me for my patience, and let me know it goes a long way. Now he doesnt come around as much. I'm so sorry to hear. im married going through a separation. I'm tryin so hard fr this to wrk but I'm still confused wht's goin on in his head, whether he is jst using me, or he aint sure abt me that's y he keeps spacin out, or that he likes me but is still lookin fr someone else??? I've been dating my aqua for 8mnths and it has been one rocky ride. Aries people are passionate, motivated, and confident. then he started coming around every 2 weeks or went even longer without calling. I am totally lost and confused. Now its been a would again should I move on ornot? We water signs are not built for this! Obviously there is loads more background but impossible to include everthing here and wouldn't want to totally bore you all! At least he is not a Scorpio, because you would wait longer after pushing him. Theres nothing wrong with being competitive. A man with this zodiac sign is quite good at expressing his emotions physically. She will divulge secrets that she's kept locked up her whole life. We have been casually together over a year now. According to the negative qualities of Aries, hes probably just doing his own things deeply; later, he would call you and explain. I was the reason for our problems. even as a friend it was hard to deal with this behavior and he was never there when i needed him, yet i was always there when he needed a friend; it was definitely always a one-sided friendship, although he'd probably deny that. But when the person I am spacing from starts to cling to me because of the break, I get worried. Find out to see whether he actually likes you by taking this quick free quiz, Your email address will not be published. And if he does, does he become bitter, aloof, or sarcastic as a result? Then we got intimate. When im with him he is affectionate and I can tell he has something for me, but its like a rollercoaster! He always talked about putting a ring on it. Which not to brag but he will NEVER find another woman like me. I was absolutely horrified! When an Aquarius man doesnt like you, he will change plans on you regularly. LET THEM GO! I gave this man unconditional love to him & his kids. I'm great friends with an Aquarian guy who's 9 yrs younger to me. That shit right their can cost him his life if not careful. They are full of life and thus take every day as it comes. He knows i dont struggle to meet men, but i do not behave vein, i always dress well and beautify but i keep natural.. i have a lot going for me, i drive a nice car and career and house is in top rank, so perhaps he thinks i may be of use but then he appears a bit nervous as he did at the start like he has no confidence around me but im certainly not a great lover of boys.. Any aquariuses that can shed some light would be apprecisated buti cannot say id be interested in going on but believe me, i wont chase the man or entertain his rubbish.. phones can be hung up quickly in a decent manner and abrupt conversations can be ended.. It's these differences in an Aries/Pisces match that are mutually enriching and allow them to draw out the untapped potential in one another. If their meant to be in your life they will be. For the first time in years you feel alive. They both need their space and they are both often misunderstood. Don't let anyone take you for a ride and then leave you on the highway. I was seeing an aquarius man. Awaitin ur reply & guidance. He has been distant but drill there and when i wanted to see him before he turned on me.. he asked me why so even though i respond to his messages with no more than a simple answer and I answer his calls and do not indulge in conversation.. There is no place for ifs and buts in their life. If he shows no interest in you or in sharing about himself, he probably doesnt like you. When a Pisces man is on his best behavior, he's: His less attractive behaviors are that he can be: Pisces is the mutable water sign and the last sign of the zodiac.